Kate Peters Brings Our Voice Forward!

If the skeleton of a speech is its structure, then its soul is our voice. Our voice breathes life into lifeless text, inviting the hopeful to join us in a moment of communication, a moment of human connection.  The voice is like a kite that needs wind to carry it aloft; among many elements, our voice needs our breath. Many people struggle to breathe while speaking in public. In this guest article, Kate Peters, voice coach, performer, and author shares exercises and strategies for developing and using our fully supportive breath.

Voice Forward

by Kate Peters (Copyright 2008 by Kate Peters, used with permission)

It’s the day of your presentation. You eat your favorite day-of-talk breakfast.  You warm up your voice and say a prayer.  When you arrive, you shake lots of hands, set up your merchandise at the back of the room, and get yourself motivated to talk.  When they call your name, you tell the obligatory joke about the common mispronunciation.  You step up to the podium, look out at your audience with a smile and start off with that story that works so well.  You ease into the talk and, after awhile, it’s smooth sailing. In the end, you stick the landing and leave the audience informed and excited.

Later, as you reflect on your performance, you recognize that you didn’t feel like yourself until you “warmed up.”  You sense that your opening was a little stiff. Even after hundreds of presentations, the worst part is still the first few minutes.

Does this scenario seem familiar? If it does, you are in good company—professional speakers all over experience this problem. The good news is there is a solution and it doesn’t require expensive voice lessons or coaching (though, as a vocal coach, I am always happy to take on new clients).

Let’s consider some important facts: In the first 30 seconds you speak, people are assessing your voice rather than listening to what you say. They are determining how your voice aligns with how you look and how you present yourself. If they don’t know you, they’re trying to figure out who you are. If they do know you, they’re trying to figure out what’s going on with you. Many people fail to realize that their speaking voice is just as important to conveying their message as the clothes they are wearing or the words they are saying.  The point is, if you don’t feel like yourself in those first few minutes of speaking, you won’t sound authentic—and if you don’t sound authentic, you’ll undermine your credibility before you even have a chance to get to your message. 

So the question is, How do you make sure you sound genuine in those early moments of speaking? The answer: Breathe.

Simple.  Everyone breathes.  It’s one of the most natural things we do; however, the problem is when we get nervous or stressed, we forget to breathe.  Breathing is the antidote to stress, and here’s why:  First, breathing relaxes and energizes us all at once. Second, when we breathe deeply, our larynx relaxes and our voice settles into a comfortable, natural sound.  And finally, breathing encourages a good speaking pace that’s not too slow or too fast, allowing time for people to consider what we’re actually saying.

Here are three things you can do to incorporate good breathing into your speech.

1.         Practice proper breathing. Start by breathing in through your nose. Imagine you are a vessel filling up with air like a vase being filled with water.  Fill your abdomen first, then your lower ribs, and then all the way up to your chin.  As you exhale, your lower abs should compress as though you were rolling up a tube of toothpaste.  Repeat, but this time, as you exhale, blow the air out loudly as if you were extinguishing candles on a birthday cake. Repeat three more times, always breathing in through your nose and out through your mouth.

Practice when you have a quiet moment alone at home or the office. You can practice while sitting or standing. You can even practice while exercising at the fitness center. I find it particularly therapeutic to practice proper breathing while driving, especially when another driver unexpectedly pulls out in front of me!

2.         Breathe into your words.  The next time you practice for a presentation, take time to inhale and exhale deeply five times before you start to speak. Then take one more deep breath and breathe into your first words. Stop after every few sentences or ideas, and take another deep breath.  Practice this several times. After a few sessions you’ll be surprised at how much more aware you are of your breathing. More importantly, you’ll immediately be aware of the lack of air when you are not breathing correctly.

3.         Just do it.  Not to steal Nike’s tagline, but the next time you give a talk, use what you have been practicing. Take time to inhale and exhale deeply just before you get up to speak.  Then, as you start to speak, breathe into your first words.  Do this every time you give a presentation. You’ll be more relaxed and you’ll come across as authentic, thus improving your credibility.

So that’s it.  Breathe, breathe, breathe and breathe again.  Of course, breathing isn’t everything.  Talent, skill and your message are also important, but if you are short of breath, you’ll be hard pressed to demonstrate those wonderful talents and skills, and you’ll struggle to make your message come to life. And if that doesn’t work, call me. I’m taking new clients.

Copyright 2008 by Kate Peters, used with permission

About Kate Peters

As a voice coach, performer, and author of Can You Hear Me Now? 31 Days to harnessing the power of your vocal impact, Kate Peters helps people use their voice to get what they want. Through her presentations, seminars, workshops and private coaching, Kate helps executives, speakers, trainers, and performers focus on finding their vocal strengths and helping these individuals express themselves in ways supportive of their professional and personal lives.

Based in Orange County, CA, Kate has taught voice privately and in colleges and universities for over 25 years.  In addition, she has been the vocal trainer for many successful business clients, and has been a featured speaker with the University of California Alumni Association, the Council for Advancement and Support of Education, Women in Business, Rotary, the National Association of Female Executives, the Council of Women Realtors and others. She has been a featured guest on many radio stations including the KNX Business Hour in Los Angeles, and Women Aloud, with Mo Gaffney and Shana Wride.  To learn more, visit her web site at www.KatePeters.com or her blog at www.KatePeters.com/blog.

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3 Responses

  1. Thank heavens for another trainer who works on breath and voice! I was beginning to fear I was the only one. 🙂

    Can I slip in a short add-on to your first point? You’re point is absolutely valid as it stands but I find that sometimes it’s a lot (lot!) easier to do this lieing down at first. Obviously you can’t do your presentations lieing down, tempting though it may be…. it’s easier to relax the appropiate muscles that way if you’re doing it for the first few times.

    Cheers….. Simon

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